*randomly feels pain on a random part of my body* oh god here we go im gonna die
GIRLS — if you hit, slap, belittle, kick, punch, choke, throw things at, or control your boyfriends, you are the abuser. You are not a “strong woman”, “empowered”, or anything similar. You are hurting him. Even if his muscles are strong enough to take it, a hit or slap from someone you love is an emotional blow.
Written by a girl who’d never hit a guy.
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If you relapse, repeat after me:
- You are not weak.
- You have not lost this battle.
- You are not selfish.
- You are not out of control.
- All the progress you made hasn’t magically disappeared.
- You are not a failure.
- Life is a cycle of highs and lows- good times are ahead, so keep going forward.
- You matter.
I’m hurting. Everything is hurting and I’m really scared. Every night I lay away thinking about you and us and everything that we’ve been through. I don’t even know what I’m doing anymore. I hurt so much I can physically feel pain when I cry. I hate this. I hate that I can’t touch you. Oh God, I need you and I love you. I want to know that you’re thinking of me. I just want you, and only you. Please, don’t leave me like everyone else. Please.